Husband with FTD, Mistaken for Having Midlife Crisis, Profiled in UK Newspaper

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A UK-based newspaper highlighted persons impacted by FTD, including one man living with FTD who many believed was experiencing a midlife crisis instead of the effects of young-onset dementia.

Paul Coward, 64, and his wife, Melanie Coward, were featured in a May 16 article published in The Telegraph, sharing their story of being impacted by FTD. Melanie said in the article that she began noticing her husband acting oddly, which included a lack of empathy for their son, who had an eating disorder. What she and medical professionals mistook as a midlife crisis was instead FTD.

ā€œHe was still hands-on with our sonā€™s care, driving him to appointments with the dietician and so on, but he couldnā€™t seem to understand what was going on,ā€ Melanie shared in the article. ā€œPaul would come out with inappropriate things like: ā€˜He just needs to put on weight.ā€™ Heā€™d always been such a loving dad and close to his children, but suddenly he didnā€™t seem to care about us very much. Initially, we put the changes down to stress, but two years passed, our son recovered, and one day he asked me: ā€˜Mum, why isnā€™t Dad better?ā€™ā€

Catherine Parry, an academic from London, shared memories of her father who had behavioral variant FTD. He died at age 67.

ā€œAt 40, Iā€™m one of very few of my close circle of friends to lose a parent. I am envious of people who still get to think of their fathers as a dadā€¦Iā€™m sad that I canā€™t remember my dad before his illness.ā€

Read the full Telegraph article here.

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